Millions of couples are miserable in their marriage, and they just want out. But listen, divorce is not the answer. Do you know why God hates divorce? It's because divorce literally rips people and families apart. Unless there is abandonment, continued adultery, or physical abuse, divorce is not an option for you. Debbie and I have had our share of conflicts. But we don't allow our hurts to foul and fester. Unresolved issues will always lead to bitterness, and bitterness destroys marital oneness. It's so important to remember that the only person you can change is you. So if you want your marriage to change, you must start by changing yourself. And God wants to help you, if you'll only let Him. Now that’s real hope.